It's not always easy to stay level headed and respectful when in an argument with your partner. However, there are things you can do in order fight fairly so that respect is shown to each other.1. Take a moment to cool off and rethink the situation. Chances are you will be able to clearly express your feelings once you are calm.
2. Take a different approach when you sense tension. Ask questions, show affection, and use a bit of humor. Make sure your tone is not abrasive.
3. Stop and think about your partner's point of view. Understand their feelings and nurture them accordingly.
4. Make sure you communicate your own feelings so that your partner is aware of your concerns.
5. If you have concerns/complaints with your partner, express them then offer solutions to fix.
6. Make sure you follow up with your disagreements. Make sure your partner feels like things are better...if not, work to correct. If you don't give closure to your disagreement, the issues could grow and become more difficult to handle.
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